The shit I deal with, I can’t even hang out with my brother-in-law because “we lie” to my sister and that’s bullshit. I don’t say anything and I am a part of the issue. No that’s bullshit. I’ve been pushed away from a few of the most important people and now your sitting here bitching. Well so you know your pushing me away to. I’m being honest I knew about it I was there but I really don’t see it as a big deal your making it 100x worse then it really is. Guess what we are going to continue to go dirtbike riding together. If you really love him like you say your not going to sit there and watch him walk away hoping he decides to go down the right path. In all reality you are going to keep him around and work shit out. You don’t just let the ones you love go. They won’t come back because they are feel like this drama will happen again. All you can do is brush it off and let it go but until then keep me neutral.